i’m watching parks bloopers only now (yes, I know, the perks of living outside the us) and it’s amazing but i got into that got scene and HOW THE FUCK DO THEY WANT ME TO FUCKING BELIEVE LESLIE DON’T FUCKING WATCH AND LOVE AND UNDERSTAND GAME OF THRONES ???!?! I still don’t understand why they wrote it like this idgi i’ll never get it
a question: does anyone else get second hand embarrassment when watching con panels? like when fans start asking questions? do you ever get so embarrassed that you have to pause the video momentarily and just, chill for a minute?
as i said before i’m sad about my hair and i made the mistake to talk to my mom about it today and she just doesnt get it. Like she thinks i have more important things to do such as try to live overseas because here all her friends’ children got like international exchange programs so for her getting one of those is easy and i didn’t got one bc i’m lazy and (it doesnt matter that i went overseas early this year bc i was working at disney, so she doesnt count this as anything worth any credit) i’m stuck here barely receiving any money from my internship and studying something that she doesnt think it’s good for me (journalism)
and like idg why she talks to me that way? like I ALREADY KNOW ALL OF THIS, I ALREADY HATE MYSELF AND MY LIFE I dont need her talking to me like i’m not worth of anything. Like i know she thinks i’m gonna react and ~turn~ my life around but she just makes me feel so miserable and she doesnt understand, i’m never anything she wants me to be (i’m not skinny enough or pretty enough or inteligent enough or i never want things enough) when i try to tell her that she’s making everything worse she says i have to “toughen up” and i’m so tired i just wish she could stop doing this for like 2 days and let me worry about what i want without telling me that there are worst things i need to worry since my existence is basically useless
My good friend is a hairstylist and does my hair (which I thought would be a major issue because I am the same way as you) and she always tells me to be honest and says it's her job and they will never take it personally if you're polite:)
yeah, i just think she may be thinking i didn’t appreciate her work (but like i said she was great and amazing and everything) and stuff like that, and when i talked to her she was like “oh okay no big deal”, like i honestly think i’m way more upset about not liking it than she is, but i’m scared i may have got her in trouble?? like it’s irrational i know (i mean there’s no real chance she’s in trouble about it right? it should be kinda usual that some clients doesn’t love their hairs~ at first), but i’ll have to eventually work this through :( It’s a legit problem that i’ve had for years and i always tried to work even when i was in hs and in therapy, but it’s getting pretty annoying right now
BUT ANYWAY I’M RAMBLING, thansk for the message anyway! :) crossing my fingers she’s doesn’t take it personally
fun things about me: so as i said before, i called my hairdresser and told her i didn’t like my hair, right? I tried to be nice, you know, i said things like ~~i love how you work, my hair is great i just wish it was a tiny biiittt lighter~~, i made sure to be very polite and stuff, i really don’t think i was rude or anything, I even said i was sorry bc i didin’t like it. She was VERY nice to me, she said it was okay and that the most important thing was that i liked my hair but idk i made that call like 4 hours ago and i’m still thinking about it???? like what if she got upset? what if her boss knows and do something? WHAT IF I GOT HER FIRED? idk idk i know this has like -1% chance of happening and she’s cool with and and probably not even thinking about it but i am and i’m kinda feeling like an asshole even though i rationally know i did nothing wrong and ugh D: how do i stop this? like it’s a genuine problem i have, i just remember and analyze everything i do and if ANYTHING has any small chance of upsetting someone or come across different as i wanted i just keep replaying it in my mind it’s the worst i’m so tired of this shit i legit need to learn how to stop this
Help get people on the ground. There are activists and reporters who want to do their part and get to Ferguson. Donate and get them there. I am so far aware of Zellie Imani, Zak Jemmott, and JR Valrey (a reporter for SF Bay View).
Feed the children of Ferguson. Many children in America rely on school to get their meals and thanks to the civil unrest caused by the police, the children of Ferguson have been without school since Monday. These people want to make sure that doesn’t mean anyone is going hungry.
Keep awareness up. Not just among the like-minded people on tumblr, this is something everyone needs to be aware of.
Spread accurate information. There is a lot of distortion going on here and spreading every piece of information as it is reported only makes that worse. First and foremost make sure you are listening carefully, then share what is important and relevant.
If you are aware of any good causes or ways to help that I have missed, please reblog and add them.
N POSSO POSTAR FOTOS PQ MEU CABELO TÁ IGUAL E, NA LUZ, LEVEMENTE VERMELHO D: EU FUI NO CABELEIREIRO PRA DESCOLORIR O CABELO E TAL, e a mina nem descoloriu. SE ERA SÓ PRA JOGAR TINTA EM CIMA EU FAZIA EM CASA NÉ. Tá tipo um castanho levemente avermelhado que é bonito e que mts argumentarão que combina mais comigo, porem eu to querendo ruivo q hahahah Achei que fosse ligar lá tendo que fazer o maior barraco, xingando a mãe de todos, mas a menina foi SUPER simpática e falou que arruma de graça pfvr, e “”ganhei”” 250 reais de crédito pq eles me cobraram isso hj de uma coisa que simplesmente n existiu
dyed my hair and hated it but at least i called the hairdresser and she told me she’s gonna fix it for free (she didn’t do anything wrong tho, my hair is pretty good for someone who just dyed it, but the color is not the one i wanted) and i got some credit in the salon :)
I was speaking to a friend in Gaza and he told me that his little cousin is writing her name all over her body with her markers, just in case she gets blown up and no one can identify her. She is 11 years old. 11. The psychological pain and trauma the palestinian children go through is absolutely repulsive.
I aready had red hair before, but it was like mahogany-ish, and I think i’m gonna go for copper this time. Do you guys think this would mildly fit my face or it’d be too weird? YOU CAN SAY IF U THINK IT’S GONNA BE UGLY, I need genuine answers pls D:
“Do you think that your 16 year old daughter hasn’t masturbated already? Like, do you really think there’s anything in that scene that this chick hasn’t already tried when the lights go out at night, or in the bathroom, or in the tub, or with the shower head or something like that? I’m telling you, man, I’m not teaching this broad anything new. If I were to create a rating system, I wouldn’t even put murder right at the top of the chief offenses. I would put rape right at the top, and assault against women. Because it’s so insanely overused and insulting how much it’s overused in movies as a plot device, a woman in peril. That, to me, is offensive, yet that shit skates.”—Kevin Smith (director) on the ridiculousness of movies about sex receiving NC-17 ratings while extremely violent movies get by with R ratings. (via kevinnj)
That’s how many speaking roles in Hollywood hits are going to Latinos. For the record, Latinos make up 16% of the U.S. population. Representation matters. (via micdotcom)
“Even more alarming is that, when Latino actors are cast, they are by far more likely than any other group to be sexualized, either by revealing clothing or by being defined in the screenplay as attractive. Indeed, 36% of Hispanic actors are displayed in some sort of sexualized attire, the highest of any group looked at in the study. Hollywood seems to think America is not interested in stories about Latinos, unless they are taking their clothes off.”
Let’s talk about this. Let’s talk about how most of those roles are to be hypersexualized maids, spicy armcandy love interests, and exotic criminals. Let’s talk about how many of these roles use stereotypes to make these characters as the butt of the joke. Let’s talk about though how most of those roles go to light skinned and white Latinas. Let’s talk about how shitty the representation that Latinxs do have is pretty much restricted to bullshit and biopics. (via wocinsolidarity)